Sexual Abuse Therapy in Phoenix, AZ

No one chooses trauma, but seeking out healing is the first step to taking back control.

Sexual Abuse Therapy in Phoenix, AZ | Reclaiming Your Life Beyond Trauma

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You’ve worked hard to build a life you can be proud of. Yet, underneath it all, there’s a lingering pain—a wound that refuses to fully heal, no matter how deep you try to bury it. There are days when everything feels okay, manageable even. But then there are those other days when a touch, a word, or a memory can send you spiraling, pulling you back into a place you thought you left behind, maybe even years ago.

It’s a silent struggle, this life after sexual abuse. Even if you’ve come far, there are pieces of yourself that feel frozen, locked away in moments from the past. You might find it hard to trust, to connect deeply, or even to be fully present with those you love. Intimacy, which should bring closeness, sometimes feels like a battleground, leaving you tense, panicked, or shut down entirely. You want so badly to feel safe in your own skin, to let yourself enjoy connection without fear. But those old memories still haunt you, affecting parts of your life you wish they didn’t even touch.

Finding Safety, Strength, and Your Path Forward

You’ve probably heard all the advice—“Just let it go,” “Focus on the future,” “Don’t let the past define you.” But it’s not that simple. If it were, you would’ve done it already. Because the truth is, you don’t want to carry this any longer. You don’t want those old traumas to dictate your responses, your relationships, or your sense of self-worth. And while you’ve done so much on your own, you’re tired of trying to figure it all out by yourself. Deep down, you know you deserve more than just managing. You deserve to truly move forward and heal.

But how do you even begin to heal something this big, this painful? How do you start addressing wounds that feel so raw, so woven into who you are? And where do you find a space safe enough to confront it all without feeling judged or exposed?

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Reclaiming Your Power and Peace

Maybe you've even tried talk therapy before, but it didn't really seem to touch the pain, the hurt, or the panic that ensues when broaching the subject of sexual abuse.

My name is Kandace (she/her), I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certifed EMDR Therapist and Registered Yoga Teacher*, and I work with courageous individuals like you—people who have survived sexual abuse and are ready to reclaim their lives. Together, we create a space that feels secure, steady, and grounded. A space where you don’t have to pretend everything is fine and where your pain is met with compassion, understanding, patience, and validation. Here, you don’t have to spill every detail about the abuse, and you can still find the movement forward, out of the darkness you’re craving.

In sessions, I use EMDR therapy and other body-centered approaches to help you reprocess these traumatic experiences, gently loosening the grip they have on your life. This isn’t about rehashing the past in painful detail, but rather about reshaping how your mind and body respond to it, in a way where YOU are the one in control. We’ll work to calm those overwhelming reactions, helping your nervous system find peace so that you can start to feel at home in your own body again.

*Please see the bottom of this page if you would like to understand more about the roots of the yoga I have been trained in, the impact of colonial violence, and my intentions.

Real Tools for Real Life: Building Resilience, One Step at a Time (Hint: It's been within you the entire time)

Imagine a life where intimacy doesn’t feel like a threat, but a choice you can make freely, without fear. Where you feel comfortable in your own skin, fully present with yourself and with others. This is possible. With the right tools and support, you can reclaim the parts of yourself that were lost to trauma. You can move from just surviving to truly living, connecting, and experiencing joy in ways that feel safe and grounding.

Therapy is so much more than just coping with distress and panic, although those are good skills to have. It’s about transformation. I work with clients to address those old wounds in a way that makes sense for the brain and the body, learning new ways to move through emotions and memories so that those memories no longer intrude on daily life, and begin to feel just like another memory.

Take the First Step Toward Reclaiming Your Life

Healing from sexual abuse is a journey, and it’s okay to need support along the way. If you’re ready to start connecting with your life in a way that feels more secure, connected, and fully your own, reach out for a free 15-minute consultation. Let’s create a path forward that honors both your courage and your desire for a life that’s not constantly weighed down but trauma. Together, we can build a life where you feel safe, whole, and truly at home in your body and relationships.

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse Therapy in Phoenix

    • EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing): EMDR is highly recommended for trauma survivors, including those with sexual trauma, as it focuses on reprocessing traumatic memories in a way that reduces their emotional charge. The process uses bilateral stimulation (e.g., guided eye movements) to help the brain integrate traumatic memories more adaptively, which can alleviate distressing symptoms like flashbacks, emotional numbing, and anxiety.

    • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT): Some individuals find this therapy particularly beneficial as it combines cognitive-behavioral strategies with trauma-sensitive interventions, helping clients challenge unhelpful thoughts, reduce distress, and develop coping mechanisms. I personally worked from this lens before trained in EMDR and I found most clients preferred a more body centered approach rather than just having such a huge focus on thoughts.

    • Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: This body-centered approach acknowledges that trauma is stored not only in the mind but also in the body. By working with body sensations, movements, and emotions, it helps clients release trauma that might be locked in their physical experiences.

    • Internal Family Systems (IFS): IFS is a trauma-informed approach that works with various "parts" of the self, often helping survivors of sexual trauma explore and heal from internal conflicts or protectors that were developed as a response to trauma.

    • Group Therapy for Sexual Trauma: Some people benefit greatly from group therapy, where they can share their experiences in a safe, supportive environment. Groups provide a sense of community and reduce feelings of isolation, which is often a significant aspect of trauma recovery. Side Note: Take care of yourself in a group setting, hearing other peoples trauma may also feel triggering.

    • Play Therapy (for Younger Children): For children, play therapy can be incredibly effective. It uses play to help children express themselves and process traumatic experiences in a non-verbal way, making it easier for them to communicate emotions and experiences that are hard to articulate.

    • Art Therapy and Expressive Therapies: Many children, teens, and adults find healing through creative expression. Art therapy can allow clients to process their experiences in a nonverbal way, accessing emotions and memories through creative expression.

    • Attachment-Based Therapies: Children who experience CSA often struggle with attachment issues, as trauma at a young age can affect one’s ability to trust and form relationships. Attachment-based therapies can help them build trust and develop healthy relationships.

    • EMDR and Somatic Experiencing: These therapies can be adapted for children and adolescents, depending on the age and readiness of the child. Both can help release stored trauma, reducing the physical and emotional symptoms that often accompany CSA.

  • Local and Online Therapy: Look for certified trauma therapists in your area who specialize in sexual trauma, CSA, or PTSD. Many therapists now offer online therapy, making it easier to find someone with the right expertise, even if they’re not local.

    Crisis Hotlines and Helplines: For immediate support or referrals, consider reaching out to hotlines such as:

    • RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): They offer a 24/7 hotline (1-800-656-HOPE) and an online chat service.

    • National Sexual Assault Hotline (U.S.): This hotline connects callers to support services in their area, available 24/7.

    • The National Center for Victims of Crime (U.S.): Provides resources and referrals for survivors of all ages and genders.

    Community Health Centers: Many community health centers offer low-cost mental health services, including trauma counseling.

    Nonprofit Organizations: Various nonprofits provide free or low-cost therapy services and support groups specifically for sexual trauma survivors. Examples include Sexual Assault Service Providers (SASPs), RAINN, and End Rape on Campus.

    • Therapy as a Cornerstone: Working with a trauma-informed therapist is one of the most effective ways to process and move out of the impact sexual trauma has had. A therapist can help clients address and work through trauma, often using approaches like EMDR or other somatic therapies.

    • Self-Care and Self-Compassion: Survivors often struggle with feelings of shame, guilt, and self-blame. Self-compassion is a critical part of healing, as it encourages survivors to treat themselves with kindness rather than judgment.

    • Body-Based Practices (Yoga, Meditation, Breathwork): Trauma often affects the nervous system, leading to physical symptoms like anxiety and hypervigilance. Practices like yoga, breathwork, and meditation can help survivors reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and find calm.

    • Education and Psychoeducation: Understanding trauma and its effects can be empowering for survivors. Many find that learning about the psychological and physiological aspects of trauma helps them make sense of their experiences and reduces self-blame.

    • Connecting with Safe Support Systems: Survivors may find strength and healing in connecting with trusted friends, support groups, or mentors. Building a network of people who offer genuine support can be grounding and comforting.

    • Journaling and Creative Expression: Many people find relief through journaling, art, or other forms of expression. These activities can provide a safe outlet for emotions that are difficult to verbalize.

    • Trauma Recovery Programs: Some survivors benefit from specialized trauma recovery programs or retreats, where they can immerse themselves in healing work for a set period of time.