Family Trauma & Cycles

You don’t have to repeat the patterns you were handed.

Sometimes the hardest wounds to name are the ones passed down quietly—generation to generation. If you grew up walking on eggshells, feeling like your needs were too much, or carrying emotional burdens that weren’t yours to hold, this section is for you. Here, we’ll explore the impact of family dynamics, inherited trauma, and how to break painful cycles with compassion.

You’re not broken—you’re carrying a story that deserves to be seen.

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I Have to Keep Everyone Happy - The Lie Trauma Taught You Love Is Earned
EMDR Therapy, Family Trauma & Inner Child Healing Kandace Ledergerber EMDR Therapy, Family Trauma & Inner Child Healing Kandace Ledergerber

I Have to Keep Everyone Happy - The Lie Trauma Taught You Love Is Earned

When love once felt tied to keeping everyone else happy, your nervous system learned that peace meant self-sacrifice. This post explores how people-pleasing starts as protection — and how EMDR Therapy in Phoenix and Tempe helps you feel safe showing up authentically without fear of rejection or disconnection.

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